The Power of the Pause: Stillness and Presence as Essential Human Needs, Polly Ryan, LMFT & Robert Thomas) (1 hr)

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When did stillness and presence become a luxury?

In today’s world of chronic overstimulation, digital acceleration, and relentless demand, the simple act of pausing has become ndervalued. Across centuries and traditions, stillness has been understood as something far more fundamental: a basic human need and a gateway to healing and creative expression. From the dohas of medieval North India to the vajra songs of Tibetan masters, from the verse of Chinese monk-poets to the death poems of Zen teachers, meditative stillness has proven to be a portal for spiritual realization and creative expression. What contemplative traditions have always known, modern neuroscience is now confirming: pausing together changes us, clinically, creatively, and relationally.

This session draws on contemplative neuroscience, the history of meditative poetry, and the relational dynamics of group sitting practice. Polly Ryan, LMFT, and Robert Thomas present stillness and presence as essential human needs with direct relevance for today’s helping professional.

Research on default mode network activation and open monitoring states shows that contemplative stillness produces measurable shifts in perception, attention, and associative thinking. These are precisely the conditions that support creative emergence and therapeutic presence. Jon Kabat-Zinn’s Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Daniel Siegel’s Interpersonal Neurobiology research confirm that mindful awareness reshapes neural integration, clinical attunement, and relational effectiveness. Stillness and presence are not indulgences for the helping professional. They are clinical resources.

Artists and poets have long understood this. Painter Hilma af Klint drew on structured meditation as the foundation for her pioneering abstract canvases. Poet Rainer Maria Rilke wrote of inward stillness as the essential precondition for genuine creative expression. Singer and songwriter Leonard Cohen spent years in silent retreat at a Zen monastery, describing meditation as inseparable from his creative life and his survival. Each arrived at the same understanding: stillness is not the absence of creativity; it is its source.

This session examines the neurobiological costs of chronic overstimulation and the cultural devaluation of rest, and their direct impact on clinician effectiveness and client care. It explores how sitting together generates co-regulation, attunement, and relational safety, and how shared stillness and presence create conditions for deeper therapeutic connection and creative expression. Practical tools for health practitioners and their clients are woven throughout.

Polly and Robert will also offer optional morning sitting sessions, open to all registered participants, Friday through Sunday from 8:00 to 8:45 a.m. See below for details.

Learning Objectives: Upon completion of this session, participants will be able to:

  1. Identify at least two evidence-based findings supporting mindfulness-based and contemplative practice as a therapeutic modality for anxiety, depression, compassion fatigue, or burnout in clinical populations.

  2. Explain the neuroscientific basis for creativity emerging from contemplative stillness, including the relationship between default mode network activation, open monitoring states, and shifts in perception that arise when the nervous system is settled and receptive.

  3. Describe how shared sitting practice functions as a relational and co-regulatory experience and discuss its relevance to therapeutic presence, clinical attunement, and collective creative expression.

  4. Apply at least one mindfulness-based technique into clinical work or professional self-care.

Polly Ryan is a licensed marriage and family therapist, meditation teacher, and grief educator based in Truckee, California. She holds degrees in music performance, music therapy, and counseling psychology and has been a licensed therapist in California and Nevada for over 40 years. She is the founder of InnerAction Therapy, offering counseling and personal development to individuals, couples, and families.

Polly’s clinical approach is trauma-informed and integrative, drawing on EMDR, somatic awareness, parts work, polyvagal theory, and Feeding Your Demons, a therapeutic method she is certified to teach. Her work goes beyond traditional talk therapy, combining evidence-based psychological tools with contemplative wisdom to support deep, lasting transformation.

A devoted student of Lama Tsultrim Allione since 1992, Polly serves as a senior authorized teacher and spiritual mentor at Tara Mandala Retreat Center, where she has led and assisted retreats in Prajna Paramita, Chöd, Feeding Your Demons, and other practices. She has also studied under Lama Alan Wallace and received teachings from His Holiness the Dalai Lama.

Polly founded the Northern Sierra Tara Mandala Sangha in 2010, which continues to offer online practices and study. She brings to this work over 35 years of devoted Tibetan Buddhist meditation practice and teaching.

Polly is a co-founder of Sitting Lab and brings to this work a lifelong commitment to the integration of contemplative practice, creative expression, and psychological healing.

Robert Thomas began practicing meditation in 1993 as a novice monk at Wat Pah Nanachat, a renowned Thai forest monastery. He went on to dedicate his life to contemplative practice, spending six years as a monk at Tassajara, the first Buddhist monastery in America, founded by Shunryu Suzuki Roshi. He attained the highest level of ordination in oto Zen, receiving Dharma

Transmission from his teacher, Norman Fischer, in 2009, and spent 22 years as a Zen priest and teacher-in-residence at the San Francisco Zen Center, Upaya Zen Center, and the Austin Zen Center.

Robert is also the former CEO of three groundbreaking organizations: the San Francisco Zen Center, Mindful Schools, and the Tara Mandala International Buddhist Community. In 2024, he founded Sitting Lab, an online platform supporting people in establishing a regular and deepening meditation practice.

He lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico, where he spends his time writing, making art, walking his dog, and helping people practice meditation.